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Sternberg's Love as Story. Which Love Story is yours?

Love is…
1. Addiction - strong, anxious, attachment. Clinging behavior. Anxiety at thought of losing partner.
Complementary roles: Addict & Co-dependent
2. Art - Love of partner for physical attractiveness. Importance to person of partner's always looking good. Treating partner as a museum piece.
Complementary roles: Admirer of Art & "Work of art"
3. Business - Relationships are a business proposition. Money is power. Each partner has (his/her) place.
Complementary roles: Partners in business or Proprietor & Customer
4. Fantasy - Often expects to be saved by a knight in whinging armor or to marry a princess.
Complementary roles: Person in need of salvation & Imagined Savior
5. Games and Sports - Love is a game
Complementary roles: Winner & Loser
6. Gardening- Relationship needs to be continually nurtured and tended to. Relationships that are ignored will die.
Complementary roles: Gardener & Garden
7. Government - Relationships are about power. In relationships. as in all else, there are those who control and those who are controlled.
Complementary roles: Governor & Governed
8. Horror - Relationships become interesting when you terrorize (or are terrorized by) your partner.
Complementary roles: Terrorizer & Victim
9. Mystery - Love is a mystery and you shouldn't let too much of yourself be known.
Complementary roles: Sleuth & Mystery Figure
10. Police - You've got to keep close tabs on your partner to make sure he/she toes the line.
Complementary roles: Police Officer & Suspect
11. Pornography - Love is dirty. To love is to degrade or be degraded.
Complementary roles: Pornography addict * Object
12. Recovery - Survivor mentality. View that after past trauma, person can get through practically anything.
Complementary roles: Survivor 1 & Survivor 2
13. Religion - Either views love as a religion, or love as a set of feelings and activities dictated by religion.
Complementary roles: Person in need of salvation & Savior
14. Theater - Love is scripted, with predictable acts, scenes, and lines.
Complementary roles: Actor/Actress & Audience
15. War - Love is a series of battles in a devastating war.
Complementary roles: Victim & Vanquished


During sex she said “deeper” so I rolled over and started reading her poetry

(via dilapidated-air)

doggie selfie!
How cute is this little thang?
at Windy Hill Open Space Preserve

vllnumb asked: You are so pretty!!

Bahh thanks sweetie!